I’m Either Single Or Married….

She said…………………………………………………………………………………………………………………………………………………………………………….

I CAN’T!!

  • I can’t give the same benefits to someone who isn’t my husband.
  • I can’t give my all to someone I’m not married too.
  • I don’t want to play wife to a boyfriend.
  • I can’t put all my eggs in one basket to just a boyfriend.

Play the AUDIO!!!!

I had everything written out until hubby pulled the baby card in the audio recording. I thought why not record this conversation and talk about how I approached him about me being single or married. I didn’t share how we ended up being married in the audio so if your interested continue to read below.


In February, 2017, he came to visit me and flat out told me we’re going to the courthouse. I’m honestly stuck between romantic things and just brutal honesty because it really turns me on. Tell me what you want zaddy and your wish is my command. Sorry I had flash backs!


Back on subject, so he really drove to the court house and we got married. I didn’t have a ring when we got married, so he surprised me a few months later when I came down to visit him with a ring from zales, which I still have. I knew the ring was fake and I really didn’t care, I only complained after the ring started to turn lol. Just last year I received the ring I wanted !! Now this is from when we first started talking about marriage and rings back in 2016 on our way to Atlanta, he kept the picture of the rings I liked.


Ladies I hope you know demanding what you want isn’t forcing anything especially if you know that’s what you want. This isn’t a fairy tale we live in, not every love story starts and end like the movies. You create your own beginning and end. Don’t be afraid to say what you want. Yes, I brought marriage to the table but in the end he knew what he wanted and drove my ASS to the courthouse to show me that this thing we have is forever. I figured out having years with someone could never trump how a person who truly loves you shows you with their actions. I wouldn’t trade my story for nothing in the world.


No perfect love story over here. Stay tuned for the divorce story, it’s going to be straight facts with allot of receipts.

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